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John is a freelance writer, a martial arts instructor, a P.A.D.I. Dive Master and a former religious leader in his community. For over 18 years John has conducted metaphysical lectures, psychic readings, youth counseling and relationship coaching. Originally from California, he has traveled throughout Asia studying indigenous religions and their after death ceremonial rituals. John is currently working toward a Doctorate of Metaphysical Theology in Paranormal Studies.

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Do Pick up Lines or Opinion Openers really Work?

   Do pick up lines or opinion openers really work when picking up women? If you want to know how to get women easy then sure pick up lines and opinion openers can work if you use them right. Using openers is usually for people who are not comfortable with themselves or with their ability to speak in public.

Speaking to Beautiful Strangers

    Speaking to beautiful strangers is probably the most feared thing for men to do. You can really notice and appreciate this truth if you notice men’s reactions when a beautiful woman passes them. Men react instinctively attracted as if shocked while their muscles tense and they appear board or stiff like.

Timing isn’t Everything

    If you want to how to get women easy, then you have to understand some situation women get into. In this case when a woman is walking outside downtown or somewhere crowded, she is probably busy going somewhere. Men who inject themselves when a woman is busy usually get shut down because, she is busy.

  Now when picking up women if you make her day a little easier then you may have a chance to start a conversation. Opening a door and saying something nice will definitely get you noticed and heard, or if a woman is in line buying something and is struggling to find some change, a suave guy will be quick on the draw and give the clerk the change for her. This will definitely be a good time to start a conversation by using a pick up lines or an opinion opener.

   Guys need to consider that picking up women who are beautiful, are women who get picked up on all the time, and they get used to turning men down at the drop of a hat. If a gorgeous woman would stop and listen to every guy that wanted to talk to them, then they would have no time to do anything else with their lives. But one of the tricks on how to get women easy, is to make a woman’s day a little easier. She will give you the time to say what you want and not brush you off as if you’re just another guy trying to pick her up.

    The first thing a woman looks at before she hears anything a man has to say, is the clothes that he’s wearing. She is thinking, is the guy clean and neat? For men to understand how to get women easy, and have a chance at picking up women, they need to have a woman’s attention to be able to start a successful conversation. So, a guy has to be decently dressed or at least neat in his appearance if pick up lines, an opinion opener or witty remark will have a chance to work.

Opinion Openers to Try
    The best way how to get women easy is by not being direct, ask a question about something you may need help. Women like to be asked for advice, it makes them feel that their opinions are appreciated.
Here are a few suggestions that you can try:
  • “Hi my name is _____, can you give an idea of what is as appropriate gift idea for a female friend of mine?”
  • “Can you help me sort out a disagreement my work mate and I have, he says women like to pay for their meal on a date … is that true?”  
  • “I’m planned to see a movie this weekend, can you suggest a good movie for me to see?”
  • “A girl at my office changes her hair color almost weekly. Why do girls color their hair that often?”  
   These are neutral non-pressure questions that are like pick up lines and can be used as opinion openers. This is how to get women easy, a woman will be interested in you if you are interested in what she has to say. From this point you’re on your own. If your wit fails to give a response to her suggestion then just say “that’s a great idea thank you so much” and then leave.  Lose the battle not the war, picking up women isn’t a onetime try, it will take a few good conversations to get a woman’s real interest in you, so stay in the game.

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Friday, November 11, 2011

Can You Write Porno or Adult Material?

  I go by the pen name John M. Gardener, I always wondered why people had pen names when I was a kid, do they have pencil names also I thought? Anyways, I’m a writer. I had always imagined writers wrote about interesting things, like poems and romance novels or sit around in a Dick Van Dike like think tank room. I always wanted to have a job like Dick Van Dyke, but unlike the show I have to write about things I could care less about. The paradox to this is that as I sit writing about everything between what new TV model is the best one to buy, and why this frying pan is the best, or which brand of dog food is good and why a person should buy it.  I always wonder how many people will ever actually read these product reviews.
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    I would love to write about something I want to write about, sometimes. Well sometimes isn’t all the time for me and I have to really struggle to find time to write for myself. Like everyone else, writers have to eat too, so I have to write for others for now to make a living. I rarely turn away writing jobs, if I do its mostly for the reason that I lack technical knowledge regarding a particular subject.

    All industries need writers, majority of the writing jobs are for marketing. But every now and then I have a sexually related article pass over my desk. Now, I give a fair glance at all the writing jobs that pass my way, but I want to let the reader understand that I have written some pretty interesting topics in the past, so I thought, I’m not new to sexually related topics.  I once wrote an article about pre-mature ejaculation, what causes it and its remedies. But I was not prepared when I received an article request for male and female sex toys.
    Now I have turned down jobs before because I lacked the ”technical” know how but in this case I do know a little about these kinds of ... for lack of a better word “sex toys”. But I just couldn’t bring myself to commit my mind into writing that information down on paper.

    So, I just sat down and gave a hardy laugh over it and let it pass on by. The funny thing is that before I made the decision to pass up the job I had actually begun to write the article in my mind. I imagined how to best describe the functioning replicas of the human sex anatomy. It was then that I burst into laughter because what I imagined myself writing about, I just couldn’t bring myself to write a description of these "sex toys" even  in my mind let alone on paper.

     To write quality, passionate, daringly sensual and believable articles about sex toys, a writer should have some experience in the field of sex toys. So that the article will be entertaining, captivating and keep the reader interested in the product enough that they would want to make a purchase. A well written article should sell a product, so it is important to describe the item and its functions in detail, and how to best use it in a way that the reader will be compelled to buy the it. I believe writing a product description like this would require a person to have some porno experience or be properly familiar with the adult sex industry, and have knowledge of its jargon to be effective in writing a proper product review.
    Well that’s when I turned down the job, not just because I lack the technical skills, or knowledge of these sex toys products or lack the familiarity with the adult industry’s jargon.  But the real reason I turned down the writing job was for once I just couldn’t put what I thought down on paper. This is one of the main reasons writers use pen names so their mothers will never find out what their grown up kids are writing about.  So there it is, I hit my limit. I can’t write Porno or Adult Material.

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    Do you desire to hypnotize your boss, your co-worker, a neighbor or even yourself? It is possible to covertly hypnotize anyone you meet or know. When you learn

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It becomes obvious that the possibilities are truly endless with this skill. Mastering the art of mind control using scripts and techniques of hypnotism will change your life.

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    You will learn to make a person instantly enter a trance state that will make them susceptible to verbal commands. Almost everyone can be hypnotized from normal conversation using the secret techniques of hypnotism and key words. Many of these covertly black op type tactics are not available in any Free hypnosis e-book or hypnosis audio download mp3 file but can be learned from some hypnosis sites I have included Here.

Is it difficult to learn Hypnosis?

   No, it is not difficult to learn how to hypnotize people, actually young and old it really doesn’t matter. A person needs to have a certain level of confidence though to be successful at hypnotizing people but all the courses from the websites I’ve listed have good training programs. Hypnotizing yourself has great benefits, you can lose weight if you want, stop smoking and reduce stress. Learning hypnosis is fun and making changes in yourself and others is a great skill.

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Hypnosis is not magic.

    Using hypnosis on others will not force them to do things they know are wrong or hurtful. But you can hypnotize someone to do things they want to but for some reason cannot consciously do because of fear or lack of motivation.

Does it really work?

    Yes, hypnosis does really work, I personally was able to hypnotize myself to control my eating habits and have used self hypnosis to stop smoking. I have helped friends with this skill. They have lost weight and also have beaten back their smoking habits. One of the most amazing things I learned to do is to alleviate a person’s chronic pain with hypnotism. When I hypnotized this woman with chronic pain I read a script that caused her to believe her pain was mild and controllable. Since then she is not dependent on the pain medications the doctors were giving her… amazing!

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